About

A multi-dimensional artist, poet, and performer, Allyssa Milan has worked for almost a decade in the realm of intimacy and sexuality, and has been in the performance-based arts for over twenty years.

A muse to her core, she provides nourishing inspiration, grounded guidance, and potent reflective space for people to recognize — and realize — their deepest desires. Her mission is to awaken the erotic power within the lives of those she touches.

Allyssa's one-on-one practice is informed by a wide range of experiences with kink and power dynamics, mystical spiritual inquiry, personal development, plant medicine, somatic awareness and movement, sensual alchemy, the framework of masculine-feminine polarity, archetypal exploration, and the potency of creative play and expression.

She delivers provocative, enchanting performances which leave audiences bewitched and invigorated around ideas of beauty, romance, and pleasure. She particularly enjoys bringing illumination to all aspects of relationship with the self, the beloved, and seeing oneself as an influential individual within a greater whole. You can see some of her most recent events and performances — as well as any that are upcoming — listed here.

Allyssa loves to model and brings a deeply feminine expression to her work in front of the camera, and has been celebrated for the wide-range of style she embodies — from bold and sensuous, to soft and delicate, to elegant and alluring. She believes that feminine expression is a powerful energy in this world that is meant to be seen, heard, experienced, and cherished.

Allyssa loves to sing, act, and dance, and has appeared in several documentaries touching on various aspects of dating, relationships, and sexuality. She enjoys crafting ritual erotic experiences and transformational containers for individuals, groups, and audiences. She has traveled to almost a dozen countries, and finds great joy in hosting gatherings that bring people together from all walks of life in the spirit of celebration. She is also passionate about the art of gong fu cha, a Chinese tea practice that encourages slowness, mindfulness, and togetherness.

She has a Scorpio Sun, Venus, and Pluto, Pisces Moon, and Virgo Ascendant in the Western Astrological tradition, and is a Splenic Projector in Human Design. She loves roses, butterflies, and collecting luxurious robes and garments from across the globe.

She is based in New York City.